She Wanted Her Late Husband at Our Wedding—So I Made One Bold Request
When Lori, my fiancée, asked if her late husband Logan could be “present” at our wedding—carried down the aisle, featured in photos, seated at our head table—I was stunned. Was I really expected to share our special day with her past?
Still, I didn’t say no.
Instead, I made one condition: If Logan’s photo is included, then I’ll bring one of Beverly.
“Who’s Beverly?” Lori asked, startled.
“My ex. We didn’t want to break up—she moved away for work,” I said. “If you can honor someone who didn’t choose to leave, so can I.”
Lori insisted it wasn’t the same. But that’s when she began to realize… maybe she hadn’t fully let go.
I told her gently, “You can’t build a future while standing in the past.”
The next day, Logan’s photo quietly disappeared from her nightstand. She never brought it up again.
On our wedding day, it was just the two of us. No ghosts. No confusion.
Just a clean start—and the kind of love that finally had room to grow.